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Born
I was born in Tomah Wisconsin when my mom was 18 and my dad was 17. This is stage 1(trust vs. Mistrust)
My mom was young and trying to work so I spent alot of my time with my aunt. I developed trust with her. I developed mistrust with my parents maybe cause I wasn't with them as much but I trust them now. -
Day care at next generation now
I went to day care at this ghetto run down dirty place in racine. I think This is __________ because... -
elementary school #1
I went to Roosevelt Elementary school at another dirty ghetto school. -
first time smoking pot
I was curious, so i smoked out a apple. and it was a mistake because i then started smoking alot all during my middle school years and lacked the motivation i needed to pass school. -
hung out with the wrong crowd
I found myself surrounded by gangbangers and stoners. and i followed rather than leaving and going my own way. This is stage 5(identity vs. Role confusion)
When I was hanging out with the moldy blueberries, I was beginning to get moldy also. I did not know who I was or wanted to be, so I followed others and then started following bad behaviors. -
kicked out of school
I had possession of a "weapon" and was kicked out of school. but later was reinlisted. and charges were dropped. -
cut ties with wrong people
I decided to cut ties with the crowd, and try and fix up my life. I was on the wrong path and needed to stop affiliating myself around screw ups. You are who you be with. -
relationship
I got together with Stacy, and she was a big impact on my change as a person, me two years ago and me today are completely different, I even cut my hair cause I didn't want to look the same as the "old matt" This is step 6(intimacy vs. Isolation)
I got with Stacy when I was still messing up. She helped me get through everything and get my life back on track. Me and her are now a package deal and are in this together. I found myself in her and she found herself in me. -
+ got saved +
I accepted jesus as my lord and savior and believed that God raised him from the dead. -
Married
I get married to the beautiful, stacy obenauf(moore). -
job at nike corporation running things
Got a job being the boss, makin bank, and gettin shoes -
twins
i have kids, melani and malina -
life evaluations
This is stage 8(integrity vs. Despair)
So overal, the beginning of life sucked and I was going down the wrong path. But I found Jesus and Stacy, and with them I got my life back on track. They say baptism is like being reborn, and after I got baptized I felt like a new person. I felt cleansed of all sin and didn't want to be worldly anymore, I wanted to be Godly.
