Life&Death

  • Birth (biosocial)

    Birth (biosocial)
    Born at 8lbs,8oz. With a full head of hair. I was a week and a half past my original birthday, so they induced my mother.
  • Period: to

    First 2 years of life.

  • Sitting up unassisted (Biosocial)

    Sitting up unassisted (Biosocial)
    My mom started by placing me against couch cushions for support. Eventually she moved the cushions and I sat up alone!
  • First word spoken was "mama". (Cognitive)

  • Started crawling (Biosocial)

    Started crawling (Biosocial)
    I began crawling earlier than my sisters. Once I started moving there was no stopping me.
  • Started walking! (Biosocial)

  • Began sucking my fingers (Cognitive)

    Began sucking my fingers (Cognitive)
    I sucked on my pointer and middle finger of my right hand. I sucked on these fingers for far longer than I should have. After so many years of finger sucking, I needed braces to correct the damage that was done to my bite.
  • Happy baby. Like to be around people. (Psychosocial)

  • Lazy eye noticed by mom. (biosocial)

    Lazy eye noticed by mom. (biosocial)
    I started wearing glasses and patches at two years old. I still wear glasses to this day.
  • Mimic what my older sisters do. (Psychosocial)

    I hated that I couldn't wear the same clothes or shoes as my sisters. I would actually take their items and hide them under my bed.
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    Early Childhood

  • My closest friends were my sisters. (Psychosocial)

    Two older sisters are just 13 months apart. My sister and I are then 3 years apart. We grew up, getting closer and closer as the years went by.
  • Very Picky eater. (Biosocial)

    Very Picky eater. (Biosocial)
    I was perhaps the pickiest child growing up. I refuse to eat anything!! My favorites were hot dogs, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and pancakes.
  • Moved to Louisville, Kentucky

    Moved to Louisville, Kentucky
    After too many years of traveling, my family followed my dad to Kentucky. We lived in a cute colonial, in an active neighborhood.
  • Started Kindergarden at Holy Trinity in KY. (Cognitive)

  • Parents took an authorative approach. (Psychocial)

    Parents took an authorative approach. (Psychocial)
    We knew the rules of the house, and we listened. If we broke the rules, we would get spankings or groundings.
  • Favorite Childhood games were "sharks in the ocean" and barbie. (Psychosocial)

    My sisters and I would lay on top of the matress and pretend that there were sharks swimming in the carpet. You had to help pull eachother up when we would hit rough waters.
  • Broke right arm. (Biosocial)

    Broke right arm. (Biosocial)
    I fell off a jungle gym and landed face down on my arm. I had a cast from my hand to upper arm for 2 months, a forearm cast for another 3 weeks, and then a brace. OUCH!
  • Punishments were spankings, groundings, and face slaps. (Psychosocial)

  • Weighed 52 lbs by age 6. (Biosocial)

    Weighed 52 lbs by age 6. (Biosocial)
    Since I was a heavier kid, I recieved a lot of teasing for it. I would sometimes cry at school, on the bus, or when I came home. I developed a thick skin because of it.
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    Middle Childhood

  • Heavier set child due to refusal to eat well. (Biosocial)

  • Attended 1st through 5th grade at St Damian. (cognitive)

    Attended 1st through 5th grade at St Damian. (cognitive)
    I attended a private school until 5th grade, when my parents moved cities and I changed to public schools. I loved wearing a uniform to school. It was easier than choosing an outfit everyday!
  • Started becoming a much more active child. Biosocial)

    Started becoming a much more active child. Biosocial)
    I loved riding my bike around the neighborhood, and playing "skip it" with my friend. Swimming in the summer was also a favorite pass time.
  • Reading skills were great, Math skills were under par. (Cognitive)

  • Earned Allowance on Fridays by doing household chores. (Psychosocial)

    Until the age of 18, our allowances were given to us for doing our chores. Our allowance amount was our age.
  • Made church friends through Catechism helped me focus stress. (Psychosocial)

  • Grew up in a Nuclear family

    Grew up in a Nuclear family
    My Father, mother, two older sisters and two younger brothers. I am the middle of five children.
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    Adolescence

  • Moved cities and schools. (Psychosocial)

    Moved cities and schools. (Psychosocial)
    Moved from Westland to Northville. Began 6th grade in a new distric, in a new school, with no friends.
  • Body started to lengthen and I lost some baby fat. (Biosocial)

  • Got my period in 7th grade. (Biosocial)

    I remember started my period right before I was leaving to go to a friends house.
  • Started wearing a training bra. (Biosocial)

    Started wearing a training bra. (Biosocial)
  • Got my drivers license. (Psychosocial)

    Got my drivers license. (Psychosocial)
    My dad surprised me witha 2000 Toyota Celica! It was my favorite car and I drove it for about 7 years!
  • Had my first "love". (Psychosocial)

  • mediocre grades because I cared too much about my social life. (Cognitive)

  • Graduated From Highschool. (Cognitive)

    Graduated From Highschool. (Cognitive)
    Graduated from Northville High School, class of 2006. I slacked off in highschool too much, and just barely graduated.
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    Emerging Adulthood

  • Chose not to go away to college. (Cognitive)

    Chose not to go away to college. (Cognitive)
    I did not have a great GPA coming out of highschool. I also did not take the ACT or think highly of going to a University. It made more sense to stay home and go to a local community college.
  • Started at Schoolcraft College (Cognitive)

  • Was inactive, and did not eat well. (Biosocial)

  • Added stress from an unhealthy relationship. (Biosocial)

    Added stress from an unhealthy relationship. (Biosocial)
    I stayed in a unhealthy relationship for about 3 years. It wasted a lot of time that I could have spent with friends and family.
  • Started dating Jonathan

    Started dating Jonathan
    After hanging out with Jon for a few months, we decided to start dating.
  • Accepted into Nursing School. (Cognitive)

    Accepted into Nursing School. (Cognitive)
    Started my LPN program at Davenport University in Warren.
  • Got engaged! (Psychosocial)

    Got engaged! (Psychosocial)
    Went on a camping trip up north with my boyfriend. While sitting on the shore on the Leelanau Penninsula, he popped the question! I said yes!
  • First nursing job! (Cognitive)

    So happy to finally start working as a nurse after a year of searching. I can finally quit my job as a server!!
  • Got married! (Psychosocial)

    Got married! (Psychosocial)
    On September 20, 2013 I married my best friend in Plymouth, MI.
  • My Daughter moves across the country.

    My daughter recieved a job offer in TX that she couldn't pass up. I sadly say goodbye to her and my grandbaby.
  • Purchase our first Home!!

    Purchase our first Home!!
    After about 4 months of searching, weve finally found the perfect home to begin our lives together!
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    Adulthood

  • Recieved my RN Associates degree.(Cognitive)

  • Get into a bachelors program.

    Get into a bachelors program.
    Finally finishing my bachelors degree . Soon I will be a registered nurse with my bachelors in science and nursing.
  • Birth of our first child (Biosocial)

    Birth of our first child (Biosocial)
    We weren't planning on getting pregnant, it was a surprise!
  • Recieved my Bachelors degree in Nursing. (Cognitive)

    Recieved my Bachelors degree in Nursing. (Cognitive)
    Attended University of Detroit Mercy.
  • Recieve my first position as a FNP. (Psychosocial)

    Recieve my first position as a FNP. (Psychosocial)
    After finishing my masters program, and taking my boards, I can begin my career as a family nurse practictioner.
  • Birth of our second child.

    After having our first child, we took a few years break and then started trying for our second.
  • Birth of third child (Biosocial)

    Not long after the birth of our 2nd child, we were suprised with a third pregnancy. Our hand are full!
  • Hair is thinning and wrinkling skin is more apparent. (Biosocial)

    Hair is thinning and wrinkling skin is more apparent. (Biosocial)
    I feel I am looking older and older, I hate my wrinkles, so I start getting botox.
  • Husband recieves a wonderful promotion.

    Husband recieves a wonderful promotion.
  • Husbands promotion moves us to another state.

    After recieving his promotion almost a year ago, he is needed at another job site in North Carolina.
  • Move back to Michigan

    Move back to Michigan
    With our parents getting older, and are children being grown, we decide to move back to michigan to be closer to our loved ones.
  • Send our first child off to College

    Send our first child off to College
    Our first child is sent off to college is San Francisco, CA.
  • The start of menapause. (Biosocial)

    The start of menapause. (Biosocial)
    I'm having crazy mood swings, uncontrollable hot flashes. My Husband tries to be understanding, but men just dont get it!
  • Lost my mother to lung cancer. (Psychosocial)

    After around 30 years of smoking, my mother dies of lung cancer. She couldnt kick the habit.
  • Send our second child off to college

    Send our second child off to college
    Our Second child decided to stay in Michigan for school They will be attending U of M.
  • Birth of first grandchild. (Psychosocial)

    My Son and his wife gave birth to a beautiful baby girl.
  • Our third child joins the navy.

    Our third child joins the navy.
    Deciding that traveling would be more fun, our third child enlists in the Navy, finishes basic training, and is stationed in Spain.
  • Father dies of natural causes. (Psychosocial)

    I have a very hard time now that both of my parents have passed. Help from my husband and children keep my spirits as high as possible.
  • Birth of second grandchild. (Psychosocial)

  • Death of my brother in a car accident. (Psychosocial,

    The sudden death of my brother is very unnexpected and heartbreaking. After losing my parents, I take my brothers death very hard.
  • Oldest sister passes away.

    My oldest sister passed away due to congestive heart failure. It has been a lifelong battle for her, trying to lose weight and keep it off.
  • Losing hearing, must buy a hearing aid. (Biosocial)

    Losing hearing, must buy a hearing aid. (Biosocial)
    My family finally convinced me to get a hearing aide, after they were sick and tired of repeating their sentences.
  • Retire. (Psychosocial)

    Retire. (Psychosocial)
    My husband and I have been saving up for an RV to travel around the US. We are very excited to be alone, and spend time on the road together!
  • First heart attack. (Biosocial)

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    Late Adulthood

  • Move to Florida for retirement. (Psychosocial)

    Move to Florida for retirement. (Psychosocial)
    After driving around the US for two years, my husband and I buy a house and retire in Florida.
  • Join a book club to make friends and get out of house. (Cognitive)

  • Knee replacement surgery. (Biosocial)

    I've had knee problems for many years. After losing a little bit of weight, my doctor approved me for surgery.
  • Join a bike club to stay active.

    Join a bike club to stay active.
    After having my knee surgery a year ago, I finally feel good enough to start being more active with my husband.
  • Start seeing a therapist.

    Start seeing a therapist.
    As more and more of my friends pass away, the reality of my own mortality is pushing me into depression. I decide to see a therapist for my problem.
  • Husband has a small stroke

    Husband has a small stroke
    Due to the stress put on him by my depression, he suffers a small right sided stroke. No major deficits result.
  • Husband dies of natural causes while he is asleep. (Psychosocial)

    Husband dies of natural causes while he is asleep. (Psychosocial)
    Death of my husband hits hard and I fall into deep depression. No matter what my family tries, I cant get happy and get snap out of my grief.
  • Death of a broken heart. (Biosocial)

    Death of a broken heart. (Biosocial)
    Shortly after my husband, I also die, but of a broken heart. I die peacefully in my sleep.