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Brother #2 Born
When I was 8 my half brother born, while I had another half-sibling, I didn't live with him, he lived across the country. At the time, I didn't know how that my new brother would change my life trajectory but he has become my best friend. At the time I was certainly aware of the influence they would have on my own microsystem, changing our family dynamic. Being a big sister has become such a huge part of my identity that I am very proud of. -
Brother #3 Born
At age 10, I was gifted with a third brother. He has been the most caring, loving, compassionate, understanding sibling. In my life trajectory he has been the sibling to keep me strong and encourage me when struggling with mental health issues. Whenever I feel defeated or lost, I think of Nicky and instantly feel like I could conquer anything. I continue to carry out the characteristics he embodies in my day to day life. He has significantly affected my microsystem of family! -
Making of a Blog
In undergrad, I found a creative outlet by blogging. I had previously done a lot of writing about my own struggles with mental health and eventually received a lot of positive feedback. With that, I started a blog. I didn't find it difficult to be vulnerable, but rather keep up with the writing and everything that has to do with a blog. I will always be grateful for the relationships it flourished as a result in my exosystem and the courage it took to be open about my struggles. -
New Relationship with Family
Up until I was in undergrad, I didn't have the smoothest relationship with my parents. I couldn't wait to move out of the house, and be on my own. It was as if I was on a mission to prove them that I could do things my own way. It was when I was 19 that I realized that it was okay to ask my parents for help. This significantly changed the trajectory of my relationship with them and therefore myself. I'm extremely close to them and so grateful for our relationship. -
Trip to Africa
When I was 23, my family took a trip to safari in Tanzania. I was at a point in my life where I was super depressed, I had just gotten into a bad car accident and felt helpless. This time with my family traveling completely reset the way I thought about life, and my priorities. Soon after, I decided to move home back to where I could be close with my family. I've been significantly happier and more determined since.
