Pamela Boykin's Timeline By pamelaboykin Aug 22, 1959 The day I was born. May 18, 1978 The day I graduated from Vigor High School. Jun 22, 1979 Marriage to my first husband, John D. Cook. Jul 16, 1980 The birth of my only daughter, Kathryn R. Cook Jun 20, 1987 The day I got divorced. Jul 13, 1988 The day I married my second husband, the worst mistake of my life(John Havard). Mar 21, 1995 The day my only son was born, Charles Havard. May 8, 2006 The day i got divorced for the second time ( one of the best days of my life)! Aug 18, 2007 The day I started college, it was a new and wonderful chapter in my life.