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During this period I was raised by both my mother and my grandmother. My playmates were mainly my uncles who were close to my age. I was pretty much a tomboy.
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Thank the Lord she developed an adversion to bad habits that could have affected my development.
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Born 6lbs. 7oz. I was a healthy baby girl born to a 17 year old teenager. I was healthy dispite my mother's attempt to self abort by engaging in risky behavior such as painting with toxic house paint and climbing ladders. Did not know my father personally, only knew him by the information on my Birth Certificate.
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My middle childhood years was filled with a lot of pain and confusion. I experienced rejection from my peers because I grew up in an all white neighborhood, and then later in Detroit which was predominately black because of the way I spoke. I also experienced rejection from my step-father who resented that my mother was a packaged deal. I also moved frequently which prevented me from making close bonds with other children during this time period until we bought a home when I was 10.
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I was happy to finally have a sibling. I spoiled my new baby brother.
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Sad day for me because we did not get along. The children were not included in the event, and did not know until they came back from Ohio. That made me angry,too.
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At the time my mother's live-in boyfriend's, (soon to become my step-father), son's mother dies from lupus. Big changes for all of us. We need to move out of our small 2 bedroom apartment.
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I was excited but also sad because I felt as though my childhood was ending.
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During this time many children were bussed from the inner-city to the surrounding suburbs. This was a psychosocial event because I had to adapt to different people. I was no longer in a predominantly black school anymore, and I also witnessed disparity compared to where I was and to where I had been bussed. The quality of education and environment was evident.
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This was a mile stone for me because I realized that I had the capabilities to be an excellent student.
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My 8th grade year was a "coming of age" year for me. I learned that I was attractive to boys ;and I began to explore and share my gifts and talents. It was a very exciting year for me.
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I was a part of the CAP program. Cooley Accelaterated (Honors) Program and also a member of the National Honor's Association.
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This was the worst event of my life. My parents who throughout my life smoked maurajana and drink finally moved to much heavier drugs. I experienced the results of the crack cocaine epidemic. Within a year we lost our home and the family was shattered. Being the oldest, I became a replacement parent.
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Mixed feelings. Happy that my mother was leaving a bad marriage, but also sad that the family that I knew were breaking up. My step-brother whom I was close to went to live with his mother's aunt. I also left my high school during my senior year.
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Graduated from Melvindale High School. Lonely experience because I moved from my old High School and friends in the middle of my Senior year.
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Graduated, but was not what I really wanted to do. Should have stayed true to what I originally started to do,because I returned to Psychology later in life.
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With every pregnancy I developed hyperemesis whereas I threw up everything including water. I had to be hospitalized to be hydrated and fed through an IV.
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Our wedding aniversary is 2 days before my husband's birthday. He can't forget it!
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This was a difficult birth. I was in labor for 25 hours and had to have an emergency C-section. He was 10lbs.
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This was a tremendous blessing because we were living with my in-laws home. Very stressful especially since I was expecting my second child. It was an answer to our prayers.
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This portion of my timeline will have actual events as well as projections according to goals and events that are in progress.
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I exercised religiously while I was carrying her, and ate well. This was a very easy birth and recovered quickly.
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This was a momumental decision for my husband and me, but well worth it. We homeschooled until my children reached middle school age.
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This was a devestating blow for my husband and me. We wondered what happened during my pregnancy. Was it something I did wrong? Was it something that happened at birth? What kind of life would he have later? He turned out find.
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Almost a birthday gift. After her birth I also experience postpartum depression probably because I had my children close together, and my mom lived acrossed the country.
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years of nonactivity and poor eating habits took it toll on my body. Had to begin taking insulin.
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Children are almost out of the nest. Decided to pursue my goals and dreams.
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My son Phillip who is a special needs student walked across the stage. He entered Western Wayne Skill Center the following year. We are proud of his progress and determination.
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Second child to walk across the stage! Hooray! Went to Schoolcraft the following semester as a Medical Transfer student.
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Did not know my grandfather well. Wish I did. He divorced my grandmother when my mother was 12 years old.
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This could be sooner or later, but I pray that it is later and my children are married.
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This is a projection, but according to my life expectancy calculator I could live up to 98 years old if I make improvements in my lifestyle. Otherwise, I could live up to 89 if nothing tragic happens.
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My husband and I hope to retire together, buy an RV to explore the country then travel the world.
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