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About now is the time my mom and sperm donor split. I don't call him dad because I haven't seen that man since I was like 2 or 3 and he didn't even fight for any kind of custody but crap happens I guess. It made me realize that just because of your blood doesn't mean you're family. Respect and loyalty are earned not given.
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This is the day my mom and dad split for a few months because of some things he was doing. Just because you love someone doesn't mean it's enough to stay together if it's toxic for you and your kids. Don't be selfish and stay with the person who hurts you and messes up your kids in the process.
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My brother and I almost drowned. It was one of the scariest things because I thought I was going to lose him and I couldn't help. But thankfully he is okay and we are both alive. I learned that day I would save my brother no matter what happened to me.
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My brother had emergency surgery on his hip. I wasn't able to see him because he was in isolation and it was during school, also on my birthday. It made me realize that my birthdays arent that big of a deal when someone I love could be hurting.
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Around this time is when my grandpa got the news he had lung cancer. I don't talk about it because death is everyone's finish line so there is no need to mope over it. I'm not gonna lie though when I got this news I had my first breakdown. I know when he dies that part of me is going with him. Time is priceless and I hug him longer and tighter now.