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7.2 Childhood Attachment Experiences
My attachment style was avoidant as a baby.
I grew up in a domestic violence and my parents never gave me any compliments or love to me.
It was most of time negative comments. I grew up with believing that I cannot be loved and I could not love someone except friendships. I acted always like I don't care but deep inside I did.
I believe this had a big impact on me, who I am today. When I loved someone I was scared that he would leave and hurt me, realizing that I was not good enough to him. -
3.1 Oxidative Damage
We all do know that protecting your skin is very important. And we know too that the sun is an important part in our lives, because the sun is giving us the vitamin D to our own body. But still I would recommend everyone to start at an early age and use the sunblock as our own antioxidants to blocking out the UVB and UVA light, since they are one of the various forms of radiation. By not protecting your own skin it can lead to major diseases such as skin cancer. -
3.2 Genetic Limits
The perfect hayflick limit theory:
Everyone in their twenties is required to take a shot to increase our normal cell population and prevent the telomeres from shorting themselves, when a cell divides. It will make their lifespan last until 150 years old.
But you will need to eat healthy. You will not be able to eat unhealthy food. Drinking alcohol will be encouraged to drink only 2 times in a month You will need to exercise every day. If you don’t do this, it won ‘t be working. -
1,1 The Beginning
My chronological age is 22 but my social and pscyhological age is maybe around 24-25 because of my decisions i made to be here , it make me grew as person but also adult. I became an adult on the day that I moved out from a unsafe place and faced the world on my own. I moved to USA without having anything. I came to Gallaudet on my own. I was faced with different culture, different people.
It was hard, moving to the unknown place was the bravest thing i ever did and it made me grow. -
4.1 My current healthy lifestyle
For overall, i can say that my lifestyle is pretty healthy.
I do eat vegetables and fruit every day. I do maybe eat junkfood once in two months. I drink alcohol only during the weekends. I did smoke in the past when I was 16, but just for few months. I'm trying to change my exercise schedule to every day instead of the weekends only. One thing I have to change is,that I have to force myself to use the sunscreen, since I never use it. So,my lifestyle is not bad at all. -
7.1 Adult Attachment Style
My adult romantic attachment style is somewhere between preoccupied and fearful type.
I want to be emotionally intimate with others, but sometimes I am uncomfortable to let them in,the big reason is that I am scared for when I let my walls down for someone, and let him in, that he will realize someday that I am not good enough and he will hurt me.
Sometimes I do not feel good enough to someone and it is for me hard to believe that someone can love me. -
8.2 Super's Stages
I feel like I m still in the the stages of the growth and exploration.
I know what I do want to become in the future. I am sure about that, but I want to still explorate. I found some interest, that I did not know that I could be interested in. I do feel that I am still growing and learning about the world, life and so many more.
That is why I feel like i have both stages of growth and exploration inside me. -
9.1 Generativity
Barb Hynes is a woman who looked back and is satisfied about her life. She is proud that she went back to college after having kids, even though it was hard for her to have balance between family and school. She do not have regrets about the past and she feels that she have a lot to offer to the world. She feel that she is more confident about herself, her identity and experiences. She wants to have more challenge in her life and being productive with the time. -
9.2 Ego Integrity
Garnett Thomas Eisele was last month retired as a judge. He did not wanted it but he is glad and enjoying his time during the retirement. His wife died last year, but he remember himself every day since at work he saw many worse cases and that people were not lucky. He decided to live from day till day. That is what keeps him going because he feels that he is lucky to have a good life, family and friends. He has a good integrity and he is proud of who he is and what he did. -
10.1 Fowler.
I am in the conjunctive stage since I have to deal with a lot of experiences every day and I am learning more and more how to deal with it with ideas and I feel like I become more oriented towards everything in general. But during my adulthood i expect to change my stage sometimes to Individuative-reflective stage because there will be a new situation happening that I have to fill something in my identity and my outlook to the world can change every time, something happen in my life, good or bad -
11.1 Major Life Event
Outstanding Personal Achievement:When I moved to the U.S. on my own. I think it was a outstanding personal achievement. Because I had no support and no one that i know was here. At the same time I learned a lot about myself and who I am and who I want to become. I struggled for a while, and it was hard. I never thought it could be that hard, but in the end when I looked back, it was all worth it. I would not change my past for anything, because it made me who I am today and I am proud of myself. -
8.1 My RIASEC type
My RIASEC type was social and artistic.
My primary type was social and secondary was artistic. It fits my personality completely. I love to work with people, help them to make their life better.
I want to become a psychologist someday, so I pick the right job that fits my personality the best. -
6.1 Young Adult Role Transition
I expect to marry at this around this time. My age will be around 26-27, which it will be the ideal age for me.
By that time i already enjoyed a higher standard of live and ready for commitment with someone for the rest of my life.
I will graduate of PhD Clinical psycholgy and done with school, to find a job first and then i will be ready to marry with someone. I will do the cohabitation relationship first , to see or we match living together and end up with marriage if we still fit together. -
6.2 Older Adult Role Transition
Becoming a parent is one of the big event in our lives. The first child will bring deep satisfaction, sense of being an adult for the first time. Because you have to be there for someone, take care of them and raise them up.We will possibly going through the parental imperative process.
I will be ready for having a baby at this age, because by that time i will probably have a own house, settled down with my husband and enjoyed our life together and share our love with our future children. -
5.1 working memory
When you are trying to recall events, but you can't remember them sharp anymore. Your episodic memory is declined. It can affect you, but it is not that bad. You will start to not remember where you left your keys, or start to repeat a story to your child or friends and they said that you already told them, but you don't remember or not sure about or you did. -
4.2 Potential consequences of my lifestyle
My current health lifestyle present a risk factors for cancer or diabetes. The riskfactors for diabetes is because I do not excercise every day. And for the cancer is it because I did smoke in the past and did drank a lot of alcohol. There are some things I can do which it might to help me to prevent me from getting cancer or diabetes.
That is excercise everyday and try to drink alcohol in only 2 a 3 times a month instead of every weekend. -
5.2 Attention
The prospective memory is a memory that make you remember to do something later on or remember what it is that needs to be done.
For example:You can cook something, when you are ready with cooking, you remember yourself that you needs to close off the gas.But someone calls your name, and you totally forgot about the fire/gas that you need to close off.
Forgetting these small things, can be dangerous. You need to pay attention on the tasks that you need to be done.
Use a planner for example? -
1.1 The End
Too well loved to ever be forgotten Lore Hilde Marie-Louise Ameloot, a beloved wife,a mother from 3 children and a grandmother of 6 grandchildren, died on 23 november, 2080, at her home in Pittsburgh at her age of 91 years. She died in her sleep. She was born in Belgium and moved to USA and graduated in 2017 as ph.d degree in psychology. She helped a lot of people. She leaded a beautiful life, her strong character and kind personality endeared her to all. She was loved by all who knew her.
