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I was born on April 6 2004, in San Jose California. My mother at the time told me that after giving birth to me I needed to go to back to Paraguay which is where I grew up for most of my life. Having no sisters or brothers I was the center of attention at our house. Our house was a Korean culture based household, but due to the fact that I lived it Paraguay I ended up becoming a pretty mixed culture child, which eventually helped me in a positive and negative way.
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This was when I was going through the stages of sensorimotor and preoperational. The first word that I said was papa which means dad in Spanish when I was about 3 year old. When I was going through my sensorimotor stages I tended to suck on my fingers which my mom didn't like because it hurt my fingers. When I was going through my preoperational stages I moved a lot and fell on the ground hard. Also I moved through countries a lot, not immigrating but more of a lot of traveling.
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This was when the biggest event happened, my mom got cancer when I was younger but this was when I realized that my mom was sick but didn't know how scary it was. This was the times where I was going through Concrete Operational so I was growing up to more of my dads and grandmas ideals than my moms ideals which let made me culturally Korean and Paraguayan because of my father and my grandmother. I lived with my mom when I was older though. I also became more introverted.
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When I was about 12 years old I was very foreclosed about my future job. I wanted to grow up and do the job that my grandma and my dad did which was a Korean market. But through middle school I changed a lot. I went through Elkind's Adolescent Egocentriscm so I thought that my life was the hardest and didn't take into consideration my family and my friends. But after growing and maturing I ended up getting out of that stage and ended up even getting a dream for myself
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To pursue my dreams my mom made the big decision of bringing me to the U.S and now I am pursuing art and studying in high school. In high school I am in the stage of Moratorium where I am trying to see and feel what it's like to do other things that aren't art. But in the future I am going to go to Parsons the New School and learn about fashion in NYC and become a fashion designer.
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After I get admitted to college I am going to do an internship on different fashion industries so that I could find out what suits me best. After graduating I am going to get a job and work so that I could pay off my student dept and I would get a boyfriend and date him. I will buy a house in New York and become a successful fashion designer. I want to date till I am 30 and think about a future with a man that I match with.
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After dating my boyfriend steadily I want to get married and have two children and become a walking mother who works and can be the best mom of New York. When I turn older I want to be able to work and start to get ready and collect money so that I can pay tuition for my children when they go to college. I want to just work on a steady pace and earn a lot of money.
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I want to work and just live a normal life. I want my children to remember me as a mother who took care of them and loved them and taught them about the difference aspects of the world. I want my legacy to be of a loving mother that can overcome obstacles like taking care of young children and working while taking care of children.
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This is when I want to retire and go to Korea with my husband is he is Korean so that I could just rest and do hobbies like knitting, cooking, watching movies and going on dates with my husband. We are going to have a healthy lifestyle where we eat organic and we work out in the pool. I want to be lovey dovey with my husband and get massages with him.
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From this age I will just live a life that is the same back to back. Some things that would be fun or amusing would be taking care of my grandchildren if I have any and maybe visit America every once in a while so that I can still meet my friends which are going to be my friends till death.
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I want to go to a nursery with my husband and watch us age till we age as a beautiful old couple where we can just be happy together. I could probably take care of my grandchildren and watch them get married.
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When I am at this stage of life I just want to repeat a life and wait till the day I die a peaceful life. I don't want to go to the hospital and I want to die after my husband because I don't want to leave him alone. I don't want to write a letter and I don't want to die regretting anything.
