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Describe your family Members
Sequanna Smith (Mother) : She a great mother, caring person, her sign is a Leo, she independent, emotional, strong person. That my twin. Reginald Bell Jr (Dad) : I get my anger from him but he a good person when you get to know him, he funny and he the reason i wear number 12 for basketball. Bessie Bell & Reginald Bell Sr (Grandparents) : I love my grand parent Im there first grandchild, they great people and christians and me my grandad share the same birthday. -
How your parents handle conflict
My mom will argue and try to get the last word and my dad gets angry and try to run over you not literally -
How did your parents handle money? Did they save or spend ? Did They budget ? Did they argue over it?
Most of my life I lived with my mom so she handle the money but she saved most of her money -
What did happiness look like for you during your childhood?
Happiness was making thing right and stable -
If there was one thing I could change about my childhood it would been
My last name -
What role did morality (right or wrong) and? or religion play in your role childhood and family life?
I grew up in my grandparents church. And It taught me the value of religion and to believe In god -
What are three defining moments in your childhood that changed you, shaped you into who you are today, or helped you mature or grow.
- My real father wasn't in my life when I was like 3 or 4 years old so my mom boyfriend (Michael d Stanback )at the time was my father figure.
- My step dad Michael d Stanback change my last to his last name but people dont know my actual last name is Bell.
- Couple years later my sted dad was sentences 14 years to jail. So, I didnẗ have my real father in my life and father figure in my life so I have to learn stuff on my own.
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What event /person/ thing made you feel loved for this first time as child?
My first actual football practice with Deer park cougars I was seven years old I fell In love with the sport. -
Describe a time when a family member greatly disappointed you and how you handled it and if you grew from experiences
I ask my dad to come to my first basketball game. He never show up and I was disappointed and upset. I would never trust anyone what they say to me any more. -
Describe your most memorable accomplishment
Me and my grandmom church feeding the homeless -
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Present: High School Years
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What did activities/club/sports contribute to your personality/ behavior/ attitude/ world view?
Basketball team khs taught how to be a man outside of basketball -
How do you handle conflict with your peers? How do you handle conflict with your parents? What do you do?
I handle conflict by asking mom for everything cause I know she going to do It -
Who has been the most influential person in your life during your high school career?
My basketball coach, coach Campbell. He taught us how to be better man and lear and grow. Its was more than basketball. It was way of life. -
Who do you spend the most money on? Describe your spending habits. Are you a saver or spender ? How do you get/ earn money ?
I say Im a spender, as soon I get money spent on junk and other stuff thats not important -
What does happiness looks like for you in high school?
Happiness was getting a lot of attention and sports -
Describe your most memorable accomplishment
Kecoughtan football team had a perfect year in 2018 -
What event /person/ thing made you feel loved for this first time as child?
This girl name jonjanae made me feel love and secured -
Did you learn anything from marriages around you that will/ have influenced your ideas about marriages?
My grandparents show me marriage is love and everything and It motivated me that all you need is each other -
How old do you want live and why?
We have to die someday, but I want unit Im 95 -
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Future life after high school
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Describe What happiness in midlife through retirement would look like for you.
Something I love to do and my family and supporting me. -
What are your plans for after graduation ?
Go to college of course but i been thinking of re classing for another year -
Where do you want to live when you move out on your own? What is some criterion that you must have to make a place livable to you?
I will love to live in New York, I plan on going there because i love the city and most of my family are there. -
Do you want to get married ? What age do you want to do get married? What criterion must your future
Yes, I want to get married one day after I graduated from college and start my life. My future spouse is going to have the world -
If you have children what are the top five lessons you would try to build into their characters? What things would you do with/ for your parents did for you ? What would you do differently with your children than your parents did you do with/
The top lessons I want my children to learn are self- Discipline, Independence. value of others. hard work pays off, challenges will make you stronger, be passion what you do -
Do you want a family? Describe what you would like in a family some day.
Yes I want children, about 2 or 3 and all is boys. I want my family to be patient and learn and grow together. -
What career goals do you have for mid-life? Where do you see yourself mid-life?
I see myself finishing college and beginning my career as being a chef -
If nothing stood and my way my dream would be to rich (what kind of car, house, business, family, organization, Non-profit, would like to have) List much stuff as you can think of?
Having my own shoe business
Having a large family
beautiful house
nice car, work truck
restaurant
cooking busines
