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this was calculated based on birthday
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From my birthday, I have calculated the possible date which I mighy be concived. It was in the middle of December,1966.
There are several things need to be mentioned: 1. Mother lived in a village, poor prenatal care, but also at less risk of pollutions(homemade food . 2.No major event during germinal, embryonic and fetal peroid
2. Born at home, not in hospital(poor healtgh care)
3. Happy ending-I was born healthy on 09/09/1967. normal delivery. -
2 weeks after mom's pregnancy.
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The ninth week of pregnancy.
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Breast milk feeding start
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Born at home(no in hospital-poor health care), a healthy baby boy
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Biosocial events; 1. Born at about 3.6 kilogram and 50cm in length. 2. Weight doubled during first year and then tripled the second year. 3.Height also increased rapidly. It was 77cm when I was 2. 4. A quite baby(sleep a lot). 5. Sensory and motor skills developed well. Stand alone well at 10 months, First step at 12 months. walk well at 14.5 months. 6. Nutritions;Breats milk for 6 months, added food then. Started regular food at 1 and half(Goat milk was added).
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Responding to parents and toys
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At about 3 months, lift head and first roll over.
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stand by self but not walk yet.
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Purposeful in responding to parents, siblings and toys
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Added goat milk in food
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started first step without support
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Start call parents by using Mom and Dada
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normal smash food added
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Froming close bonds with family members especially parents and grand parents. recognized family members
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imitating parents and others for words.
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Jumping on both feet not on one foot.
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No accurate record, but received all available vaccines then
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Playes between ages 2 and 6.5. Become more social with same age childen. Motor skills develpoed greatly. Had my own memory since age of 5. Could ride tricycle, making toys(Sward, Spring). Has friends of same age and same sex.Started to take some risky activities.Can make simple logic judgement. Never been punished by parents, this surprised both parents and siblings. Started to help parents takeing care young brother and sister at age of 6. Langgugae skills developed normally.
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Self explore toys and objects
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kick ball forward, walk up steps
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self awareness and start purposely play with siblings
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First sentence:I want food.
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uneasy as parents turned more attention to baby brother
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very good motor skills
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Meet several good friends and still good friends as now. started to build friendship. Social contact.
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like to play hero when paly with friends in day care.
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Play with older sister and young brother well. started to understand sharing.
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started to help parents to take care of brother and sister. Realize need to do something for family.
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developing of curiosity for new things
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Fight for peers on street. defend my friends. they will defend me as needed.
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Attend village elementary school. Avoid to play with girls. Participated group fighting. become a group leader.Taking responsibilities for others.Thinking more logically. Very good student in academic espically in math.little bit shy. Earning many awards for math comptetition. Realized death at age of 6 when grandpa passed away. did not easily afftect by peer pressure. never bullied others, also no being bullied. witness bullying sometime.
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Started to paly with boys only. avoid to play with girls the same age. started realize the difference of gender.
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Five friends formed a group and the friendship has been last to present.
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goog motor skills impressed coach since I am not tall.
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take responsibility for family
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motor development
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Chinese strong man Chairman Mao passed away. do not totally why all the people were crying.
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started to realize what death mean
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Previously only privilaged young man were allowed to enter college. open the the door for people like me.
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Old sister was bullied and my brother and I help her to defense
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separated family with uncle's family. still in the same house, but separate economically.
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First time took a ride in a car. curiosity.
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Obtained first meaning award in math competition when in 5th grade.
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Family was separated to form two families(uncle's family and my family)
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Journey to the west.
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good academy development. the best in calss
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Middle school in village middle school. Rapidly grow of body in size.Learning skills become more sophisticated.Learning become more self-motivatied. Starting konw my goals( to be #1 and enter good univesity). Focus on study. have less time to play. Even under peer pressue, keeping study the most proprity.Team leader in class and study group.Logic thinking is better than other students.Basketball player. did not affect by drug, smoking and sex activity. mainly focused on calss activities.
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This opened the door for people like me to obtain their high education. sisters got in taeching school. parents work hard to support our education.
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proud myself and bring honor to parents too.
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First time watch a forigen TV on TV(Bridage)
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first time see a TV at a local factory
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Due to lead students climbing a high building on roof(risky) , was suspended by middle school principle. Mother meet the principle the second day and school resumed.
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did not know each other well, but was in same school. both were good students
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when riding bicycle, falling from a high hill, Injuied right arm
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As oldest grandson, I had a spcial role on the funal event
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excellent academy record entered a great high school. The door to an university was openning.
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County High School. The first one in family to attent this great high school, still a team leader.Lived in campus by own(back home once a month). Taking care own stuffs(study, cleaning and others)Started admire good girls and received invitation from girls too, but never dated. Clearly knew my goal and focused completely on study to prepare university enterance examination.second sex characteristics became obvious at age 15. nerver touch alochol until age of 17(first beer), never smoking.
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hair and others
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Injuried left ankle in basketball match
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team work and leam leader. developed some kind of leading skills.
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Separated after middle school, but meet in a student event again and became connected again.
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July 7,8,9, hot weather. lone of ife defining moment
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After the entrance exam, received admission notice for the university(Southen Medical University of China)
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Advanced academy development. did well in calss, logic thinking become more mature and logic. Intelligence developed well both in acadmy and in social context. never touch smoking, drug and alcohol. Personal achievemnt became driving force for hard working. Take responsibility for my behaviors. Moral strength become more clear. start to think responsibility for the whole community.Started thinking political problems. Started serious relationship with my future wife at age of 22.
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left parents, left house and felt excited. eager to all new things.
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some of my classmate were humilated by training officer due to lower grade in shoting.
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realized that people can show their power by demonstration.
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Lily, classmate, first girl friend. lifetime friendship.
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ocasionally, reunited with my previous friend, later became my wife and soul mate.
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political reform is need for China to becoma a modern country
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completed university study(5 years), assigned to Tibet as a health care officer.
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witnessed the hardship in Tibet both physically and psychologically. Thought as a extra personal experience gain. Strengthed relationship with my fiance. fully contact to social activities. More think of political problem in China. become more commitment to what I want to do. became more sophisticated in handling relationahip both in work and in family.prepared for graduate school examination. got admission to a good graduate school.
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Lived in captial of China. started to live with fiance. thought of our future together. Started thinking of visit other country, espically USA. Prepared TOFEL and GRE. A mature man was building my career. Meet a good mentor, Prof. Wang. developed very good relationship with manager and supervisor. Became team leader for a government project.Taking responsibilities both for self and the whole team. good knowledge and skills in health care management. never touch risk things like alcohol, drug.
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did not attend, sent flower, gife and money for celebration.
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Did not attend, but sent flower and money for celebration
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Worked and Lived in Beijing. more mature in all aspects, physically, mentally and psychologically. handling pressure well. handling all social relationship well. care for community, care for view of others. Work hard for success. married with fiance. started to bulid own family. Struggled to have a baby(wife has medical condition). Started to take responsibility for whole family after father's retirement. professional career developed well. Worked with big pharmaceutical companyies worldwide.
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After about 8 years fall in love with my girl friend, we got married in Beijing China. I just competed graduate study and she was still in pursuing her master degree.
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started working with my mentor professor Wang, She helped me greatly both in my personal life and my academy development.
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mother had surgery while I was assigned to a government project. Could not back home then. transfered money to parents.
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wife got fellowship in Austrilia and USA, Pick up University of Usth as destination.
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Father is getting old and retired, family responsibility fall in my brother and my shoulder as boys in family.
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Biochamistry PhD program
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Topic was infection disease in southern China with Pro.Wang, mentor
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Twin tower was collapsed. More than 2,000 lost lifes.
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cultural shock , working very hard on study and to improve english. adjustment both mentally and physically to fit the life in USA. Attend various schools to improve English skills. Started to think human rights, and political problems more seriously after 9.11 attack. Witnessed the anti-terrorism war. witnessed freedom in USA and the election in 2004.Busy life for studying and working.
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First half year study in Utah State University. Lived in USA campus with my wife and my sister in law.
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since wife got first job offer from GM. moved to Michigan.
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wife lost first pregnency, sad. sad.
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Get green card in 02/2005. great news
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vallerie was born two weeks earlier than projected due date.
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First time my parent visit us in USA. They were so proud that they are the only persons at their age have the opportunity to visit USA.
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bought first house in Troy, Michigan, American dream was coming true.
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Understand the medical system in this country. Comparing to what China has. understanding cancer patients more deeply. Understand terminal care for study patients. life became more smooth. Two kids were born during this time. Family is growing. Bought house and started to make the american dream become true. Parent visit many times. Visit china once. one of same age firend died. started to think death problem.but not oftenly.
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still love each other, family is being build up. Daughter was born and expecting another baby. Celebrated in our first own house.
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due to job change, we sold our first house.
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son was born. health baby.
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hugh earthquake in china caused more than 80000 lifes
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beijing olympic, proud of the development of China. Still have long way to go for political reform.
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people with my same age started to die of disease, need to take care your health carefully.
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After ten years in USA, I went back to China dn visited my middle school
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met family, relative and friends.
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Bought second house in Novi. houseing market is down.
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visit Washington DC and arlington national cemetary there
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excited. sent her to school bus.
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finally became a citizan of USA
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Family visit Disney Florida(with my parents)
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badly. affect worldwide.
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Started to entering middle life. Life is expected to be more smooth. watching kids grow up. Focus on personal career. continue to learn new skills. Did not expect midlife crisis, but exppect changes in personal life. Will do the best to adjust midlife change more smoothly. Taking old parents and whole family as well. Expect to keep a good relationship both in personal life and in public affair.
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renew oath
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Kids will lgrown up and leave house. ecpected to retire at around age 70 if health condition allows. After retirement, will try to keep active as before. Focus on develop new personal interest such as worldwide travel, spend more time on reading interest books.Will attend as more as public events to keep a busy life. still keep sutible physical activities and keep a good physical condition. Will aslo keep mentally active. Help kids to take care grandkids. enjoy good time of life.
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40 th wedding anniversary, planning to return to Beijing to celebrate.
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Wish to live peacefully. No war in this world, no criminal around the community. Will enjoy the last stage of my life. My wife and I wish to go to the other world at the same time. When facing the final phase of life, I wish I can say that I have lived a good and productive life. Wish to say final goodbey to family, and friends at my own home. If My wife is still alive, I will have her as my health proxy, if not, my son or daughter will make the decison for me when I am not able to do then.
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according to life expectancy calculator I will live to age 89 if I follow my current life style. I wish I could say that I have lived a very good life.