Rasheeda's Life

  • Birth Date

    She was born in her childhood home in Sialkot, Pakistan.
  • Marriage

    Rasheeda was married to Mehr Ehsan Ul-Haq. She was one year older than him.
  • First Child

    Basharat Mahmood the eldest son and sibling out of seven was born in Sialkot, Pakistan.
  • Second Child

    Asif Mahmood, her second son was born in Sialkot, Pakistan.
  • Third Child

    Gulzar Mahmood, her third son was born in Sialkot, Pakistan.
  • Fourth Child

    Sabihah Nigit, her only daughter was born in Sialkot, Pakistan.
  • Fifth Child

    Shahid Mahmood (my father), her fourth son was born in Sialkot, Pakistan. He is the first person in my entire family to immigrate to America, which paved the way for my uncle Tahir to immigrate here as well.
  • Sixth Child

    Zahid Mahmood, her fifth son was born in Sialkot Pakistan.
  • Last Child

    Tahir Mahmood, her sixth son was born. He is the only other family relative I have that lives in America.
  • Husband Passes Away

    Rasheeda's husband, Mehr Ehsan Ul-Haq, passes away in 1984, leaving behind seven children.
  • Destination Arrived

    Destination Arrived

    September 9, 1999, was the day she saw America for the first time. She stayed with my uncle, Tahir, for a few months before going back to Pakistan.
  • Green Card Received

    Green Card Received

    She received her resident card, also known as a green card, the day she arrived in America. My father made sure that she became a permanent resident.
  • Hajj

    Hajj

    The event of Hajj takes 10 days. Rasheeda performed Hajj with some of her neighbors and acquaintances from Pakistan. Afterward, she bought a souvenir, a golden model of Al-Aqsa.
  • Al-Aqsa Mosque

    Al-Aqsa Mosque

    Rasheeda gifted a model of Al-Aqsa to my father as a reminder not to lose faith in Islam in a new country. It announces the azaan five times a day. This was when my parents said their goodbyes before immigrating to America.
  • Last Visit to America

    She stayed with my family and me for a couple of months before she left for Pakistan. Her green card expired this year but was never renewed because she did not intend to visit America again.
  • Death

    Sadly, Rasheeda passed away after falling off some stairs, worsening her condition with diabetes.