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Me and Nicolette interact at the hospital. Interactions with Nicolette while she was with another man and me feeding my son. https://youtu.be/pGhgpoqavxE
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Me tending to Nicolette and Neven being comical. https://youtu.be/pGhgpoqavxE
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These photos were sent 13 days after his birth. At this time I had gone through issues with Nicolette and her boyfriend at the time. I was actually asked to leave the birth-room so that she could be with her boyfriend at the time. -
Gmail - Nicolette - Sharing Newborn Photos
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Me tending to neven after he came home to my residence after a verbal parenting plan. https://youtu.be/Ky4C6lFYsFg
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Neven in my care after the parenting plan. https://youtu.be/AS5SYotkBZQ
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Neven was in my possession in his home with me, after a parenting plan, was in place. https://youtu.be/dYI60Lad8TE
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Gmail - Nicollete - Sharing The Fairytale Book
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Live - Nicolette - Update On My Academics
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Amazon - Soccer Fee & Equipment
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Live - Nicolette - Soccer Information
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Live - Nicolette - Sharing T-Ball Information
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Purchase - Neven - Xbox Subscription
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Live - Rhonda - Sharing Photos 2nd Birthday
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Live - Nicolette - Shares Teddy Bear Portraits
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Lease - Apartment - Grand Reserve - New Job
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Live - Nicolette - Sharing Neven's Daycare Phtos
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Live - Nicolette - Sharing Flag Football Information
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Amazon - Coaching His Flag Football Team
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Live - Nicolette - Sharing T-Ball Information
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Samantha - Pregnant
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Sports - Neven - Coaching His Tackle Football Team
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At one of his basketball games, this was the first year that I stepped away from coaching after being constantly talked about by the mothers. https://youtu.be/8YWjAxZGpvo
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Nicolette is concerned about Neven because he is emotional about me and Sam separating, and not talking to him about it again. I found it strange because she is the person who pushed for separation and claimed that Samantha was neglecting him.
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Text - Nicolette - Thanking me for taking Neven to his track meet, and apologizing for it being 10hrs long.
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Text - Nicolette - Final attempt trying to invite Nicolette to a gathering.
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Text - Nicolette - Grounding neven, for something she did not explain to me, and it's kept vague. Example of gatekeeping
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Text - Nicolette - Complaining about communication and swimming. I am noticing a trend of complaining about anything and everything. *Nicolette was late to all of neven football practices and did not care when asked about it.
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Text - Nicolette - Talking about after-school care for 3 days of the week, when things return to normal.
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Text - Note sent home due to altercation with a student at school.
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Taylee Pottytrained - Per Dr. Notes
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She asks me to help with Neven;s lunch money. I told her that he already had money on his account the sum of $75.00
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Text - Nicolette - Claiming that I need to help her with Neven at home expenses to even though, neven was living with me at the time, and I have never asked her for any monetary assistance
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Text - Complaint over taxes - I claimed neven somehow, and happily filed an amendment to fix the issue. She was still not happy and she felt I did not deserve anything.
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Nicolette Complaint - Step Brother Meaning, and Initial Threat Towards Taylee's & Neven's relationship
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Nicolette is upset because Neven told Elijah that they were stepbrothers. I am confused, about the anger we talked about, but I can not recall the conversation, but I never told Neven not to look at him as his brother or not to look at him as his brother. I simply explained what a step brother was, she claims we have talked about this before, but I have no clue what's she talking about.
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Neven overheard baby talk or something, and got upset about having more siblings. I referred him to his mom, because the last conversation about brothers and sisters ended up with me being accused of sabotage.
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Purchase - Amazon - Car - Ignition - $125.00
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Text - Dispute - Asks me to get Neven a haircut
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Text - Nicolette is upset about no appointments, and claims that he had appointments when she asked.
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Text - Nicolette is upset that I waited until last minute, but I reminded her that she requested a haircut and that I was only doing what she asked of me.
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Me telling Nicolette she needs to back off with the condescending remarks.
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Text - I reminded Nicolette that she asked me to look for a haircut with one day's notice and that I had driven to all the barbershop locations to avoid another altercation because she was upset.
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Text - To Nicollete - Asking her if she got neven off the bus without communicating it to me. - She claims she never does it.
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Text - To Nicolette - Neven informed me that he did not want to do Track and that he wanted to take a break.
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Text - To Nicollete - Nicolette ignores information and suggests we re-visit coparenting. She is upset at to me for stepping away from coaching duties because of her attitude towards me coach, wanting me to do more for Neven's "money", and inflation.
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Text - Make plans for neven car-rider schedule.
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Nicolette agrees to neven going to school from my house, we talk time and pickup and more.
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Lease Obtained - $1250.00
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Nicolette gets disrespectful, after making plans with other people on my time.
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Displaying the interaction of my children before accusations were made. https://youtu.be/QY_Mf6mT8mo
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I notice my son is needing more redirection than normal. I tell his mother.
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Lease for bedrooms accepted
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Lease - Big Lots - Opened - Beds
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Taylee's Medical Evaluation - UTI - TXTS!
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I told Nicolette that the house phone is not working for communication.
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Told me that I can not bring Neven around Sam
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Taylee's Medical Evaluation - Locate Texts
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Text - Nicolette - Argument of Taxes Again
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Told not to claim my son on taxes
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Making plans with sam behind my back
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Text - Samanta and Nicolette made Halloween plans with each other - EVEN THOUGHT NICOLETTE FEELS AS IF SAM WAS MEAN TO NEVEN. I was not included in any of the plans.
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Text - Nicolette refuses to talk about the issue with Samantha but believes it's okay to continue making secret meetings with Samantha without my knowledge.
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Text - Gatekeeping started
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Text - Nicolette stated that I was trespassing on her property after she asked me to pick him up, and after several unanswered calls and messages informing her that I was en route.
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Text - Nicolette agrees to week on and a week off.
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Text - I informed Nicolette that I have ordered Neven a phone to avoid any further issues with simply wanting to talk to him.
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Text - Nicolette - Lying by saying I have not bee involved in any of my sons sporting events.
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Text - Nicolette agrees to week on and week off.
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Text - I informed Nicolette that I have ordered Neven a phone to avoid any further issues with simply wanting to talk to him.
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Text - I informed Nicolette that I have ordered Neven a phone to avoid any further issues with simply wanting to talk to him.
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Text - Nicolette - Gatekeeping - Allowing my son to choose his decision when before, his decisions did not matter, when pertaining to wanting to see me.
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Manipulation full blast
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Text - Nicolette acting as if we did not agree that neven would be at my house from Thurs-Mon and Thurs-Sat
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Nicolette conversation about Neven
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Lease - Big Lots - P.I.F 11/29/2019
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Lease for beds paid in full
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Purchase - Children - Christmas
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Text - Gatekeeping - Nicolette using her gatekeeping as a reason for me not helping.
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Purchase - Amazon - Children - Cameras - $81.92
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Text - Gatekeeping - Interupting christmas, by claiming neven has a fever but refuses to verify, something I have done via picture numerous times
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First Christmas in New House
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Live - Nicollete - Sharing Football Information
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Lease - Big Lots - Opened - Living Room
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Purchased my bed to replace the old full-size we all slept in.
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Purchase - Neven - Adventure Academy- $9.99
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Purchase - Children - Christmas
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Nicolette decides to change verbally agreed plans due to an altercation involving her wanting to attend a party with Samantha without me being PRESENT. She told me that I was being selfish because I did not want the two of them to be alone together, after the altercation about Neven.
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"Requested Escort - Plot all communication texts
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Attempts to buy home and were outbid. After research, I learned of more inflation to come, and corporations buying homes. Making it nearly impossible to find a home within my loan limits. I had turned down a promotion of 100,000 because I was uncertain about my availability at work. I am currently being allowed to handle these issues, but my job role is uncertain after the completion of my court proceedings, I may be asked to resign due to job performance and refusal to attend after work events
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Neven - Visits - Randomly, my assumption is that she wanted to go on a vacation, and did not have the people available that have been keeping my son. So I was the only option. My son had disclosed to me that he wanted me to talk to his mom, and I told him I had always talked to her. I told him that I would send a group message and when I did the group messages with them both inside.
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TXT - I informed his mother that my son was asking questions about coming down again, that I did not give him a answer and why, and that you should talk to him first like she tells me. Her response was that "SHE" had plans, and that she was unable to accommodate what my son wanted, and that he had to wait.
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TXT - SON WANTS TO COME DOWN - MOM IS UNABLE
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After trying to make plans for 3 days my son is allowed to come down, but it's intentionally drawn out and made difficult on purpose. At this time I have to get the runaround.
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Nicollette is informed that my answer remains the same my door has been opened. No need to ask all you have to do is tell me you are on the way.
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Nicolette - Removes Nevens Phone - Purchases Another, does not provide a number, and I do not hear from my son for 3 months.
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NO RESPONSE
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Informed Nicolette that there was a tax issue and if my son was removed from her husband's insurance like I asked, and to use mine.
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Parenting Plan Filed: Nicolette - $146.00 - I informed Samantha of the parenting plan, and Samantha rushes to put me on child support. Confirming the belief that she and Nicolette we secretly communicating and passing information back and forth
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Parenting Plan Filed: Samantha - $146.00.
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Me asking for information about the court proceedings that I thought she was already preparing but learned that she had 0 intentions of taking me to court and that this was all an attempt to alienate me from my son until he was 12.
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My son was asking for my help and he was not responding to texts or phone calls. I asked her to check on him and did not receive a reply.
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Samantha Claims IRS Funds and denies claiming the childcare-dependent credit. She then states that I should be lucky that she does not take more from me.
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Samantha Files For Child Support Randomly
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Although she knows I want to keep my children together she asks me if I want to see him. She claims that she has always asked my son if he wants to come over to my house and that he has been the one not wanting to come over.
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She stated that there was never a PP, and that my son had changed his mind and did not want to come down anymore. Reminded me that no matter the outcome she requires clear and effective communication involving Neven. Also reminds me that I am not getting this time back and that my son is not a little boy, and he prefers to play with his friends and not be with his dad. She also states that he does care for her attention as well or to hang with her or play games. (which is not like him)
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Nicolette acts as if Neven has had the choice to come over my house all along and I remind her that, none of it is true.
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Neven and I had planned to run our first obstacle course together. He was having issues with his confidence before any problems started.
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This video proves I was there, and I have never left. I was even asked to leave so that another man could enter the birth room. I left to avoid any situations and her mother followed me out and apologized for her actions.
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I was asking her about him coming down, but she keeps changing the reasons he can not come.
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Mediation Scheduled: Samantha - $650.00
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I informed Nicolette of my and sams outcome as well as thanked her for her change in attitude as of late. She refused to allow me to keep him all weekend even though she claims she is not in the way. I informed her that my parental rights come before any plans she make.
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I told her that she has forced me to get a lawyer and that at that point I had done everything to keep things out of the court.
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I informed Nicollete that she heard what they said in mediation and that Neven has no say in him coming or going down to my house. I explain to her that based on that we should be back to our verbal parenting plan, but she ignores it and plays ignorant to everything
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Nicolette claims that I have not tried to see my son and that I have to schedule a time to see my son, that sleeping arrangements are required, and that Neven was traumatized by being accused of sexually inappropriate behavior. Althought it's been debunked, it was debunked not long after accusation, and my son did not have any issues with anything at the time. (timeline will show he was okay) She also brings up Neven being 12 and needing a room of his own.
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Informed Nicolette that Neven was removed from plans to avoid telling Taylee a lie and upsetting her.
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Nicolette attempts to make plans even though 3 days prior she already knew we had scheduled for him to come down. Attempted gaslighting by poking fun at my lack of seeing my son and insinuating that I do not want to see him.
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Nicollette does not respond to texts and responds 4 days later; claiming now that she needs to talk to her lawyer first.
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After my first time seeing neven since I ordered a parenting plan Nicollette accuses me of putting her in jail, and that I would physically harm Neven. Meaning she is questioning him, and instead of confirming with me what was said she is making accusatory statements. These false statements were later used to place some type of order on me not allowing me to communicate with my son about my absence, and the TRUTH to whats going on. Currently, my son doesn't think I want to see him
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Nicolette is acting as if she has always tried to allow me to see my son. She is claiming that she tried to help me get a job at GM. She is claiming that she shouldered all of the financial responsibility time and time again. I break down my work history for her to prove she is lying.
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Me telling Nicolette I know all about her communicating with the same secretly.
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I explained to nicolette after we first broke up her dad called, and asked me to forgive her for treating me bad she has been this way since she was a kid. She gets upset and stops speaking to him or her mother. I witnessed this a few times when we were dating, and even told her that she should be happy to have a mother that could help her when she was down. and out.
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I remind Nicollette that this should be simple, but she continues to make accusations.
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Nicolette is still acting as if she wants to make plans, by asking the same questions that I have already answered. I explained to her that I am with my daughter and that less than 10 minutes down the road she can bring Neven to me seeing she told the police officers that I Trespass.
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I informed Nicolette that I got the papers from the lawyer.
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I text Nicollette reminding her once again that she can not keep my son away from me. Tells me to contact a lawyer, I reach out to a lawyer, and I do not get a reply.
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Nicolette is acting as if she wants to make plans. I inform her that she knows my schedule and that Neven is always welcome, and I have told her that multiple times but she likes to act as if I am hard to understand. My son calls for whatever reason from her number, and leaves a message phone rang 1 time.
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I confirmed the time with her and asking her for Neven's school information. She acts as if she doesn't understand, and I tell her never mind and go to the school myself to learn about my son. I get to the school to learn that my name has been removed from everything.
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Reminding Nicolette this will be three weekends of not seeing Neven, this is after being told that I should be able to see my son by the judge.
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I asked for her to bring him to open house so that I could setup after school-care, and she refuses. I informed her to let me know what her attorney says because mines told me that it should not be a problem.
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Nicolette claims to be going to Michigan for 3 weeks. She never clearly answers the question. I tell her that I need to get on a schedule for work, and she blames my text messages as the reason she does understand. She claims again that we were never on a parenting plan even though she admitted to having a verbal one in court that was being upheld for 8 years.
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Nicolette asking for money for school. I inform her that it was already on his debit card and I will withdraw it when he comes down and send it to her in an envelope, and take care of any surprises. I had already asked for her to come to the open house with him so that we could plan this out but she refused.
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Me sending Nicolette photos attempting to remind her that she is lying to the courts about her involvement in my child's life.
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Nicolette waits until the last minute to try and make plans for Neven, although I asked to make plans for an open house, and school supplies before and she made complaints or rejected it. I informed her that I had plans and that she could meet me at Mcdonald's she declined She declines and starts a discussion about his lunch fees which are already taken care of, and she decides to argue that they are not, not knowing that each account shows information based on the user and not the child.
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Nicolette texts me about lunch money and I informed her that it's already taken care of, and she denies it, even after I send a screenshot.
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First time no issue with pick-up or drop-off.
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Neven asked to see me and his mother said no, this is even after stating he doesn't want to see me. She is now stating that he is not allowed to ask to come down and it has to go through her because he is a child. This was never the case before.
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I asked neven to come down, so that they could start mending their relationship. I told him that I would ask, until you allowed it. -Declined, and stated that I was not concerned about mending their relationship before, because I stopped taking her calls. I reminded her that I told her that I would contact Neven directly to talk to him, and that if I wanted to see him
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Me asking to see my son, and her acting like I am not trying to see my son.
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Asking to see my son.
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Nicolette asks the same question knowing the answer and my times.
- At this point I said put it on a calendar so we do not have to communicate and she declines.
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Nicolette is once again antagonizing me by saying the same thing a different way. I had to inform her the schedule was always Thursday - Monday, and she changed it when she got upset with My ex.
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She asked me to pick out something for his formal, and then because of his stepbrother coming down cancels it and decides to do it all on her own. Excluding me. I do not fall for gaslighting and just say okay, because this is typical behavior.
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We planned for a pickup and early arrival.
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Nicolette lets me know she can not accommodate me at all, although I have been forced to accommodate her for the past 3 years.
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Nicolette is upset that I use Neven to pass along messages to avoid accusations. This was typically how we communicated in the past and it prevented issues, she could contact me if she did not understand. Now she wants me to reach out to her although she ignores most texts.
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I was accused of discussing her sex life with my son. She is referring to my son asking what caused me and her to break up, and I told him his mom was unfaithful. My son always seems to have a question about something when he comes down, and it's often used against me, but I refuse to lie to him because he is curious and searching for his own answers. I rather not lie to him during these times even if it hurts me, I need him to know I will be honest with him as long as he is willing to ask.
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Even though I did not see him much at all for his birthday last year. I was offered to get him this year, but it would be cut short for whatever reason or plans she had. I delayed his birthday until he came down to stay without being under any restrictions.
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Nicolette responded that Neven has not made a decision once again contradicting herself; meaning I could ask him myself. If you were going to ask him anyway, once again making communicating with her pointless.
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Nicolette did not respond
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Informed Nicolette, that I was getting burnt out from her not allowing me to see my son, blaming it on communication, and then not communicating. She says no, and she needs to think about it, and then immediately responds again and says yes. I ask her which is the correct answer and she doesn't respond. I tell her never mind, we will just wait until court..
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Informed nicollete that I learned that she has been in communication with Sam, against my wishes after blaming her for the reason I can not see my son, and disrespecting my daughter. Nicolette falsely states that she has no issues with sam as far as she is concerned when in fact she accused her of everything and is the determining fact in my deciding to separate. I was told to separate or be prepared to go to court, all because sam "NEGLECTED" Neven.
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Nicolette was upset that I asked her to pick up Neven at the UAW hall. This location is closer to her than the bear creek location. She got upset and told me that I can not change locations, even though my son wanted to attend.
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Nicolette tells me about therapy, but provides no information for me to attend, and refused even after attending the therapy meeting. She then stated that therapy will only be with Neven exclusively, and refused to still give me contact information. I called child services, juvenile services, and my lawyer. Nobody had anything written down.