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John meeting Andrea
Stoltenberg met his life partner Andrea Dorwkin in the spring of 1974. She would go on to be Stoltenberg's longtime supporter and aide until her passing. This was crucial to bring up because his understanding of violence towards women was primarily passed down to him by his partner. He frequently tells her stories about why he conducted such introspective soul-searching. -
Publication of Refusing to be a man
Refusing to be a man: essays on sex and justice was one of Stoltenberg's first books. This book covered topics such as social justice, violence, and the desire to change outlooks on masculinity. This was one of Stoltenberg's first steps toward becoming a publisher. Later, he would produce further nonfiction books that went into greater depth on similar issues. -
Publishing of The End of Manhood
Stoltenberg's The End of Manhood: A Book for Men of Conscience was another frequently quoted work. This aims to investigate sexual relations, pornography, friendships, and other topics. This book was another milestone in his advocacy for teaching men to have a “genuine conscience.” -
Andrea's passing
John Stoltenberg's life partner, Andrea Dorwkin, passed. She was a major source of inspiration and guidance for Stoltenberg and all of his writings. Stoltenberg frequently mentions her in interviews about the profound influence she has had on his life. She, like him, was a radical feminist who wrote Intercourse and Women Hating. According to the readings, he has stated that he will continue his advocacy with her in mind.