Cherie Sobriety Timeline

By luisjhernandez

  • First Drink

    First Drink at Age 14.

    "I was 14when i took my first drink. I blacked out..." (cherie's autobiography)
  • Period: to

    14-present

  • 14-16 years old she "Drank on and off..."

    "I drank on and off after that until I was 16. Then I began drinking every weekend...At first ...2-4 beers was usually enough...In time i progressed to vodka." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • By age 17, "had an evident drinking problem."

    "By age 17, I "had an evident drinking problem, blacking out nearly every time I used." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • Age 18 to 19 1/2 , Drank on and off

    " I kept this job for a year and a half. drinking on + off, whenever there was someone of age to supply me with alcohol." (cherie's autobiography)

  • Blacked out at co-worker's Christmas party and quit job

    "i graduated high school in the year 2000 and got a job waitressing. About 5 months into the job I attended a x-mas party a co-worker...was having. Of course I ended up blacking out and making a total ass out of myself. The next day i quit my job." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • Got fired from her job for reasons "directly related to alcohol."

    "When i turned 18,I got a job at federal express...I kept this job for a year and a half, drinking on and off...I got fired. I won't go into detail, but it was directly related to alcohol." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • 18 years old, "started drinking...nearly every day..."

    After losing the Fed ex job, "I started drinking more rapidly. nearly every day..." (cherie's autobiography)

  • in Airforce , had 2 public intoxications + 1 disorderly conduct

    "I got in trouble with the law a few times. Two public intoxications + one disorderly conduct." (cherie's autobiography)

  • "...drank maybe twice during tech school."

    " [Luis] found out early on that I had a drinking problem + wouldn't let me drink around him...I think I drank maybe twice ...each time I was at some hotel party with guys other than my husband."

  • Caught by the SP's for underage drinking

    "one night, 6 days before I turned 21 i got caught for underage drinking. i got off with only an LOR + a warning." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • Sent to rehab for 28 days

    "A few days later, after my 21th B-day i didn't show up for work. I had been drinking 4 solid days in a row... I was supposed to get booted but...they sent me to rehab." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • drank "4 solid days in a row."

    "A few days later, after my 21th B-day i didn't show up for work. I had been drinking 4 solid days in a row... I was supposed to get booted but...they sent me to rehab." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • Drank the day she got out of rehab

    "i was in rehab for 28 days. the day I got out, I drank. since they couldn't kick me out for simply drinking, b/c I was 21 + all, they came up w/ other reasons + then booted me." (cherie's autobiography) Not taking responsability

  • Kicked Out of Military

    Drinking incident after rehab prompted action to kick her from military for other than honorable discharge.

  • Caught drunk

    "I moved back to PA...Luis...came to see me. the first thing he saw when he walked through the doors after not seeing me for 2 months was me in a drunken stupar. i didn't even remember him coming home." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • Cited for public intoxication by military SP's, 3 weeks after moving to CA,

    "I made countless promisses that I would stop drinking. i did for a period of 3 weeks after moving ...to CA, one day i just decided to go to the shoppet +buy a pint of vodka. i got cited for public intoxication a few hours later + taken to jail to detox for about 8 hours." (Cherie's autobiography)

  • drank 6+ more times before going to rehab (DATE) 3 weeks after moving to CA,

    After that I got drunk about half a dozen or so more times until my husband finally gave me an ultimatum. To seek help, get better and never drink again, or divorce...I've jeopardized his career + caused him much unneeded agony and pain. " (cherie's autobiography)

  • Went to rehab for 1 month Camp Pendleton, CA

    Was given an ultimatum by me and forced to seek help. Camp Pendleton CA Drug Rehab
    Addiction Treatment in Camp Pendleton, California 92055

  • Split up from California to live with dad in PA

    Cherie and I split up for some time to sort things out in our marriage. Several police, counseling, and hospital incidents prior to this.

  • Was kicked out of father's house in Halifax

    Smashed father's Subaru window because father would not take her to get more alcohol. Father called me in order to have me pick her up.
    Cherie came to NJ to live with me again.

  • Cherie found drunk in home

    After returning from work I found Cherie drunk with a 24 case of beer and a pint of vodka. She did not open the door so i went to my father's house to stay. He told me that he would come up with me to see if he could get me in the house to grab some items. She woke up violently and started beating my father and me and ripped her clothes off and ran outside naked. Police were summoned and a restraining order placed on Cherie. She called the next day to inform of her pregnancy/charges dropped

  • Julian Born

  • Several home incidents spanning January

    She went to rehab in Lancaster for a very long time. (unable to recall exact date)
    Julian stayed with her in the facility and I had to pick him up on weekends.

  • Entry into Vantage Rehab

    She went to rehab in Lancaster (Vantage) for 6 months.
    Julian stayed with her in the facility and I had to pick him up on weekends.

  • Left Vantage Rehab

  • Several incidents with alcohol and prescriptions spanning sept-dec.

    Cherie learned (from rehab) about the ability to use prescriptions to simulate street drugs and scammed several doctors to get several prescriptions which were dangerous to children who were breast fed. Cherie continued to breast feed during this and never revealed her intent to breastfeed to the doctors for fear of not getting the prescriptions.
    Ativan filled 8/30/06
    Effexor filled 8/30/06
    both by Dr. Kendra Davis

  • Started keeping a record of prescriptions she kept hidden from me

    Paroxetine (Paxil 10mg)-Found on 12/30/06 – bottle of it…highly addictive -50 percent of patients experienced adverse withdrawals from the drug.
    Rozerem-Found 12/30/06 – partial bottle - Do not take this medication without first talking to your doctor if you are breast-feeding a baby.
    Restoril
    Seroquel
    Remeron
    Xanax
    Hydrocodine
    T3
    Tramadol
    Dexedrene
    Ritalin
    Concerta
    Prozac
    Propanerol
    Adderall
    Ativan
    Effexor
    Percocet - (sylvias)

  • Several incidents including heroin use (Jan-Apr)

    Prescription use increased and developed into experimenting with new drugs including heroin after being introduced to people that our neighbor Stacy used to try to help.

  • Pills found

    Found several pills hidden in a bag in the closet…in 2 pill bottles filled 12/22/06 and 1/3/07 both with mixed pills in them from Dr. Wiswesser, George A. with the following contents…
    -temazepam (Restoril) (When she would take a large amount of this drug, she would slur when speaking and stumble as if drunk.)
    -22 Seroquel 25mg (antipsychotic)
    -2 MIRTAZAPINE 15 MG (antidepressant)
    -Alprazolam (Xanxax) (not for nursing mothers)
    -Paxil (SSRI) - (not for nursing mothers)

  • Suicide Page found

    A Practical Guide to Suicide
    http://www.satanservice.org/coe/suicide/guide/ which has recently been archived here:
    http://web.archive.org/web/20000818052356/www.satanservice.org/coe/suicide/guide/

  • 2 bottles of Pills Found multiple doctors

    Xanax .5mg – (60 tabs) – filled 1/22/07 – prescribed by Dr. George A Wiswesser – 6 tabs left Propanolol 10mg filled 11/13/06 – prescribed by Dr. Christine Hutchison

  • Adderall found

    Adderall 30mg Dr Wisswesser..filled 3/02/07 30 pills

  • First DUI (BAH .40) after I left to Jeff and Sylvia's

    This docket is no longer available and may have been expunged.

  • Cherie and I split up and I move into her parent's house with Julian

    After several incidents over the year I had my last straw when she almost burned the house down (i put the fire out) after trying to cook drunk. Days later before i had to go to work she was dunk and Julian was crying for her attention and she told him to shut the F*** up and get the F*** away from her as she kicked him away. I knew that a change had to be made right there. I packed up some clothes and took Julian and quit my night job to stick with my day job. Divorce filed Docket # 07-2257

  • Entry into New Life for Girls

    Cherie enters New life for girls as a plea deal.

  • AGRAVATED ASSAULT, CRIMINAL TRESPASS, PUBLIC DRUNKENNESS, DISORDERLY CONDUCT, SIMPLE ASSAULT, HARRASSMENT, CRIMINAL MISCHIEF

    Docket Number: MJ-12000-CR-0000864-2007
    2 charges of aggravated assault
    2 CHARGES OF SIMPLE ASSAULT,
    4 charges of CRIMINAL MISCHIEF,
    HARRASSMENT
    PUBLIC DRUNKENNESS
    DISORDERLY CONDUCT
    CRIMINAL TRESSPASS

  • Heroin/alcohol use puts Cherie into hospital after rehab

    I called hospital up to check if she was in the Harrisburg Hospital. They released the information to me as her husband that there was heroin and alcohol in her system.

  • pled GUILTY to PUBLIC DRUNKENNESS AND SIMILAR MISCONDUCT

    Docket Number: MJ-12103-NT-0001176-2007
    Docket Number MJ-12205-NT-0013928-2011
    Case Transfers from separate Magisterial Districts that handled the case.

  • Cherie Goes to Jail (DCP) - Case transferred to Common Pleas Court as a result of Public Drunk Charge

    Docket Number: MJ-12301-CR-0000102-2007
    $50,000 bail defendant failed to comply with condition of plea New Docket - CP-22-CR-0003769-2007

  • Entry into New Life for Girls

    Unsecured bail set for entry into New Life for Girls Rehab.

  • Left New Life for Girls after controversy

    Incident with girl at rehab caused her to pack up her things and ask Jeff and I to pick her up.

  • Cherie relapses and is in Harrisburg Hospital and Polyclinic

    Cherie relapses shortly after leaving NLFG rehab and ends up in the hospital and eventually into Polyclinic psychiatric

  • Cherie destroys door and vandalizes car

    Cherie gets drunk at Jeff and Sylvia's and destroys their door and vandalizes my car putting candy gel all over the seats and breaking a cd into the cd player. She was banned from Jeff and Sylvia's house and subsequently reconciles.

  • Incident puts her back into the Harrisburg Hospital

  • Cherie enters Brook Glen Behavioral Hospital

  • Incident puts her back into the Harrisburg Hospital

  • Family Intervention

    A facilitated family intervention was held to determine a course of progress for Cherie to see her on the path to sobriety. She relapsed after going to James's house. Cherie called me in order to tell me that James was feeding her alcohol on purpose to get her to sleep with him and wanted me to take the letter i had written with her in order to change her living plan to stay away from James. She relapsed the next day and the letter was mute because she was no longer with him after that

  • Case removed from consideration of ARD

    Incident after intervention caused removal

  • Cherie claims Julian has been abused as grounds for custody petition

    Claims were investigated by children and youth and were deemed unfounded.

  • PLED GUILTY TO Exceed Max Speed Lim Estb By 17 MPH

    Docket Number: MJ-12303-TR-0000513-2009

  • Temporary Custody Order placed after Conciliator meeting

    Joint custody with meeting to decide whether custody order was sufficient scheduled for april 22, 2009

  • Emergency meeting with attorneys held

    Cherie was caught drunk and unable to pick up Julian for the first week of the new custody order. As a result, the new custody order placed me with primary physical custody.

  • Case retried and removed from consideration from ARD program again

  • HARRASSMENT- SUBJECT OTHER TO PHYSICAL CONTACT

    Docket Number: MJ-12301-NT-0000320-2009 pled GUILTY

  • Cherie sentenced to 1 month in jail and 24 mo. IP

    per criminal docket CP-22-CR-0003769-2007

  • Leaves Jail

    Finished 1 month term

  • PUBLIC DRUNKENNESS AND SIMILAR MISCONDUCT

    Docket Number: MJ-12101-NT-0000776-2012
    pled GUILTY

  • Cherie kicked out of Jeff and Sylvia's house

    Cherie kicked out for a string of belligerent behavior, intoxication, and substance abuse

  • Julian starts Kindergarten

    Ms. Martini and Ms. Dwyer. Both reported that immediately after weekends when he had seen Cherie he would "act out" in class and it would take them a day or two to reel him back in. They reported that they always knew when he had gone to see her.

  • Use/Poss Of Drug Paraph - Int Poss Contr Subst By Per Not Reg

    Docket Number: MJ-12101-CR-0000633-2010
    Caught at Jame's house

  • Sentenced for IP violation (possession of controlled substance)

    Docket Number: MJ-12101-CR-0000633-2010 6 months in white deer run, once released would ender MH Jail Diversion program and be subject to weekly reviews. White Deer Run Partial Program
    901 West Minster Drive
    Williamsport, PA 17701
    (envelope dated june 29,2011)

  • On the phone, cherie gives Julian a detailed description of her addiction

    on the phone, She gave him a detailed description of her addiction, saying," sometimes, it's the only thing that make me happy" to which he replied,"I don't make you happy? why can't you just think of me whenever you don't feel happy and then you won't drink yuky stuff?" She then told him that he would be the one to help her get better. From that moment, he felt it was his dutty to help her and felt he failed her when she relapsed.he cried at night saying he had to be with her to stop her.

  • Went to Jail Diversion in Johnstown, PA

    Renewal center
    624 broad st
    Johnstown, PA 15906
    (envelope dated Aug,04 2011)

  • After sentence, she decided to live in Johnstown,PA with boyfriend (4hrs away)

    *She was sent to Johnstown for jail diversion, but after getting out, she decided to live there with her boyfriend, Lucas (heroin addict)
    *She was on methadone
    *Julian went to visit constantly with Jeffrey Noel.
    *She had no bed so we lent her 2 air mattresses.
    *Julian had to take a space heater for warmth.

  • PUBLIC DRUNKENNESS AND SIMILAR MISCONDUCT

    Docket Number: MJ-47101-NT-0000039-2012 pled GUILTY

  • Became pregnant and fetus died around 5 months

    *She found out she was pregnant when she was already 9 weeks
    *while on methadone, the fetus died
    *she states that "the baby's heart just stopped."
    According to research published in the journal of current neuropharmacology, “ Methadone is causes neonatal abstinence syndrome (NAS). Poor outcomes include a higher incidence of prematurity, intrauterine growth retardation and increased fetal mortality.

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2647150/

  • PUBLIC DRUNKENNESS AND SIMIALR MISCONDUCT

    Docket Number: MJ-12301-NT-0000300-2012 Coincides with Mary V noel's DUI charge on the same day,same township
    MJ-12301-CR-0000195-2012 pled GUILTY

  • RETAIL THEFT

    MJ-12301-NT-0000299-2012 pled Guilty

  • Intoxicated at Julian's birthday party (our home)

    *Cherrie and her mother were invited to julian's birthday party at our home 118south market st,mechanicsburg
    *when they arrived, Mary said she was waiting for cherie for hours as she kept going back and forth to the store claiming to be buying julian a gift, which she did not and instead, bought alcohol/drugs.
    *Cherie was high and fading out constantly, dropping plates etc
    *2 parents no longer felt safe to leave their children and pick up later as was planed.Lidy was later confronted by parents.

  • Days later, she was back in rehab

  • DUI: Gen Imp/Inc of Driving Safely - 1st Off

    Docket Number: MJ-12101-CR-0000653-2012
    12/21/12 Case Transferred to Court of Common Pleas

  • DUI: Highest Rte of Alc (BAC .16+) 1st Off

    Docket Number: MJ-12101-CR-0000653-2012 disposition= waved for court Bail $3,000
    Criminal docket

  • Public Drunkenness and Similar Misconduct

    MJ-12101-NT-0000776-2012 pled Guilty Confinement from 9/18/2012 - 10/11/2012

  • Entry into Dauphin County Prison

  • Exit Dauphin County Prison

  • Sentenced to 20 days Salvation Army

    CP-22-CR-0006262-2012

  • Mother's day weekend, Came to our home intoxicated 9hrs after she was to pick Julian up

    • had plans for Cherie to pick Julian up at noon. No call no show until a call around 4pm(she was using).She showed up around 9pm insisting on taking him. Out of compassion, as it was mother's day weekend, he was allowed to go under Jame's supervision. *Next day, James called to apologize for bringing her over in that state saying "Julian was upstairs...and she had been downstairs for a while. I went down there and she was taking nudes and sending 'em to some guy instead of being with Julian."

  • being intoxicated, relocating with Julian in the middle of the night (no reliable adult supervision)

    That night they left our home after 10:00pm and would have arrived at James's in harrisburg, no earlier than 10:30pm *After arriving at James's, they had a fight. According to Julian who witnessed it all, "They were just fighting really loud and James left to go to the police, but Mom begged him not to and he came back...then he said we had to leave [in the middle of the night] and we went to grandma's house [in Elizabethtown]."

    *Julian was upset for days and expressed feeling at fault.

  • PUBLIC DRUNKENNESS AND SIMILAR MISCONDUCT

    Docket Number: MJ-12102-NT-0000954-2013 pled GUILTY

  • Julian's birthday (Cherie made plans to take him to NY that weekend, but went to jail for using)

    *We were going to give Julian the traditional birthday party with all his friends, but Mary Noel asked if she could have him for his birthday.(Cherie had been fighting with Mary) Finding out about this, CHERRIE TOLD HIM "FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY, YOU HAVE TO COME WITH ME TO LILY DALE, NY SO YOU CAN DISCOVER YOUR PAST LIVES.

    *We gave Julian the 3 choices and he chose to spend his birthday with his Mom, but when he was to be picked up, we found out she was in jail and he was distraught.

  • IP Violation - Sentenced to 4 months work release.

    Parole to Salvation Army, no alcohol, must attend NA meetings

  • Sentenced JAIL TIME COMPENATION

    Docket Number: MJ-12102-NT-0000954-2013 one day (already in jail?)

  • Julian cries when he is being picked up by Cherie

    By this point Julian has been crying every time Cherie has come to pick him up and states he would rather stay home. Lidy and I must convince him that he must go.

  • Kicked from Salvation Army Program

    Had inappropriate relationship with manager of the Salvation Army work program which was against the rules.

  • Called Julian and myself under the influence

    Promised Julian that she would see him this weekend and made arrangements with me to spend time with him this weekend. She disappeared over the weekend and wasn't heard from until briefly Sunday then next Wednesday when she called me to gloat over how she had gotten away with the drug test the probation officer Mike gave her and that she was sure she was going to jail and that something was watching out for her. Also revealed that she did have a relationship with the guy in the Salvation Army.

  • Cherie fails to appear due to relapse

    Cherie failed to appear for court due to her admission into Hershey Medical Center after a severe relapse that caused her to be places under a medically induced coma for 4 days.

  • Cherie Enters rehab

    Cherie enters rehab due to a relapse.