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The ups and downs of Nic Sheff's life

  • Nic Sheff was born

    Nic Sheff was born
    On July 20th, 1982, a beautiful boy was born. Vicki’s contractions started after midnight, and as Vicki and David were taught, they timed the intervals. Vicki then was brought to the hospital when they concluded that it was the right time. Next thing you know, Nic was born, and as a parents first child Vicki and David were enamored with their child. Both Vicki and David wanted to be the best parents possible, they sang him songs, got him the best crib, and the best stroller, so that Nic had a gr
  • Nic's first time getting drunk

    Nic's first time getting drunk
    At the age of 12, Nic had started drinking alcohol. With his one incident with drugs in the past now, David finds out that Nic had gotten drunk on a ski trip to Lake Tahoe. Nic explains to his father that he and friend Phillip scavenged the cabinets with all the liquor when both Karen and David went to sleep. Nic and Phillip then poured glasses of everything they could find. Both kids mixed all kinds of alcohol not knowing the outcome that would happen. After drinking their glass of alcohol, the
  • Nic's first time smoking, and getting caught with marijuana

    Nic's first time smoking, and getting caught with marijuana
    When Nic first got into David’s car, his dad knew right then and there. David was not stupid, he was not born yesterday, and that is why he started asking Nic why he smelt like smoke. After a back and forth conversation about the smell, Nic came clean. He told David that he has taken a few puffs and that was all. The next week, after David thought that this was a onetime event, he discovers a small bag of marijuana when he was packing an overnight bag for Nic. Little did David know, that this
  • Suspension from private school

    Suspension from private school
    One day David and Karen had received the phone call from the dean of the private school that Nic was attending, and told them that Nic was suspended for buying drugs. David and Karen were both shocked, because they had thought it was a new Nic, as it had been 2 years since his incident with the marijuana. The dean told them that a teacher had caught Nic buying marijuana outside the cafeteria, and he explained the David and Karen the school policies. Both David and Karen asked the consular if the
  • Nic's high school graduation

    Nic's high school graduation
    On a sunny late spring afternoon, the whole family was on the school’s athletic field attending Nic’s high school graduation. Nic then was called up to the podium to accept his high school diploma; he kissed the school head, and walked off. David thought that this was a turning point in his and Nic’s life. David told himself that maybe everything is alright, and that just maybe Nic’s addiction and health will stay like this.
  • Nic gets arrested

    Nic gets arrested
    One Sunday afternoon, two patrol officers pulled into the family’s driveway. David thought they needed directions, but instead they walk past David, handcuff Nic, and put him in the back of the patrol car. Later on, David finds out that the arrest was made as the result of Nic’s failure to appear in court after being cited for marijuana possession. Even though Nic never told his father about the infraction, David still bails him out. Everyone, including David thought that this was the last time,
  • Nic goes to college

    Nic goes to college
    Nic’s college of choice was California Berkley, which is the college that he decided to attend. The first couple days of college, Nic seemed to be very into college, which made David confident that Nic had changed up his life, and was enjoying college. A couple of days later, Nic calls his father and tells him that Berkley is working out. He explains that he wants to take a year off, get a job, get back in physical and mental shape, and then apply to colleges again.
  • Nic's first use of crystal meth

    Nic's first use of crystal meth
    One night after Nic had dropped out of California Berkley, he missed the curfew that his father had given to him. With his father freaking out, David decided to call Nic’s friends, and therapist. Then one night, Nic calls, and tells his father that he is in an alleyway behind a bookstore in San Rafael. On their way home after David had picked Nic up, Nic told his dad that he had used crystal meth. As it would to any father, David feels like a boulder just landed on him, because he knows the seve
  • Nic's first take at rehab

    Nic's first take at rehab
    After Nic’s disappearance for days, David decides it is time for Nic to go to rehab. When Nic shows up to the house, he falls asleep, and then wakes up to his father demanding that he attends a rehab center for his crystal meth addiction. David then brings Nic to Thunder Road in Oakland the next day, and at the rehab center they explain to David that Nic is in serious trouble. They recommend that Nic goes to another rehab center, so that he can get proper treatment for his addiction.
  • Nic moves to New York

    Nic moves to New York
    Nic, who has had a tough time overcoming his meth addiction, agrees to move to New York with family. His family thought that New York would be a better place to detox then San Francisco was. While in New York, Nic decided to try to access his father’s bank account, by making a $500 check to himself, but it was denied due to the bank account being closed. One day, David receives a phone call from Nic’s stepfather, and he tells David that Nic is in serious condition at the hospital from overdosing
  • Nic goes to Hazelden

    Nic goes to Hazelden
    David had thought that Nic’s overdose was the last incident, so he persuaded Nic to go to Hazelden drug and alcohol rehabilitation center in New York. Nic seemed to be doing great in Hazelden, he would check in with David from time to time, and he was attending AA meetings on a weekly basis. A couple months after Nic first started attending Hazelden, they closed the doors due not having enough funds to keep the program running.
  • 1 year of sobriety

    1 year of sobriety
    Due to Hazelden closing its doors, Nic decided to move back to Los Angeles to live near Vicki. Once he settles into Los Angeles, Nic starts attending Herbert House, a sober-living house in Culver City. Nic then meets an AA sponsor named Randy, a man who Nic eventually becomes great friends with, goes on long bikes rides with along the Pacific Coast Highway, and is an inspiration to Nic. In September, Nic celebrated his 1 year of sobriety, and the start of his relationship with a girl named Z.
  • Nic's first relapse

    Nic's first relapse
    Nic’s relapse first started a month after his 1 year of sobriety, when Nic stopped returning David’s phone calls. Every time David tried calling Nic, Nic’s phone was turned off and went straight to voicemail. Still with no contact with Nic, Nic broke into his family’s house, and ransacked David’s desk drawers. The next day, David finds out that Nic had broken into another house in Inverness, but then Nic retreated before being caught.
  • Nic's recovery

    Nic's recovery
    With Nic trying everything in his power to overcome his addiction, he sends Jasper a letter explaining that he was sorry for stealing Jasper’s 8 dollars, and Nic ended up repaying him by putting the money in the letter. This was the start of Nic’s sobriety again, but even with the prayers from his family, and the long stretch of sobriety, Nic can’t withstand the powerful disease that he has obtained, addiction.
  • Nic's 2nd relapse

    Nic's 2nd relapse
    After all the hard work to stay sober, and to live a normal live, Nic relapses with his girlfriend Z. David calls Nic, and has a conversation with Nic about his relapse. Nic tells his father that he and Z have been using speedballs, and crystal meth. David knows that this was the worst thing that could have happened, because Nic, once again gave away his long stretch of sobriety for drugs.