Relationship Timeline

  • Leaving Kansas City, with Grandmother

  • First Meeting With Stepfather

  • Start Kindergarden

  • First broken heart over a boy

  • Middle School

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    Diffcult time with mother

  • New Best Friend/ Connie lives next door

  • Loss Virginity

  • 1980 First Boyfriend Derrick Gordon

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    Developed a close bond with highschool PE teacher, Mrs. Feder

  • Invited to senior prom by Clarence

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    Very popular -Invited everywhere. Tons of male attention

    Lots of friends. Tiny, Michelle, Connie, Deedee and Mary
  • Start dating Dwight Bailey

  • Joined cheerleading squad

  • Introduce to my first love by Mary

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    Very involved realtionship with first love

  • Close Friend Tiny (Alice Pickens) Dies - diabetes

  • Michele dies

  • Marry first love - Johnnie Morrow

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    Love gone all wrong- divoreced

  • Johnnie leaves for the Navy

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    Several insignicant realtionship

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    Move to Oakland CA

  • Adopt Shamia

  • Period: to

    Meeting new people- no close bonds

  • Period: to

    Meet Davie Morales - wish I never met

  • Period: to

    Most diffcult time of my life to date

  • Meet Jeff Simon

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    Break up with Jeff

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    Going Through Transformation

  • Period: to

    Happy - everything is working out so well

  • Meet Next Door Neighbor Musa

  • Married Musa Sonko

  • Jordan and Jonathan born

  • First Best Friend - Angela